结婚典礼无论对新人还是嘉宾来讲都是一笔不小的开销。出席的来宾要随 份子钱 或者送礼物物。给多了，自己经济负担重；给少了，又怕伤感情。有些时候大家还要飞到离家非常远的地方去出席一场结婚典礼
Weddings are expensive affairs theres nothing new or surprising in that statement. When we talk about the cosplayts of a wedding, we often think about the financial toll1 on the person paying for it. The outlay2 on tiered cakes, the dress with a long train, appliques and veil3, and canapes at the reception can all add up. But what about the guests? The cosplayt to your friends and family to attend.
The first thing to think about when attending is the price of getting there. Even just a few hundred miles from where you live can bring some expenses be it transport or staying in a hotel. But some people like to tie the knot in exotic4 locations, thinking it will make their special day even more special on a beach in front of palm trees rather than somewhere closer to home. Going to far-flung corners of the Earth to watch the event can really be a dealbreaker for some when deciding if they can make it.
Then there is the gift. What do you give a person on their wedding day? In some cultures, asking for money isnt the done thing. Sometimes the bride and groom5 may issue a list of items they want to receive that you have to pick from. But what do you buy? And if its money, how much do you give them? How much is too much? These are questions all attendees face give too little and you may cause offence6, too much and you may be out of pocket. And of course, you dont want to be outdone by a friend giving more than you.
Finally, the last thing you want to feel when going to a wedding is regret about the amount youve spent. If you give a good gift and spend a lot on getting there, and the event isnt great, or the food at the reception isnt perfect, you might feel a little resentment7. Therefore, only give what you can afford to give. Weddings can be expensive for everyone concerned. But people often overlook8 the cosplayt for guests. In the end, though, that special day is supposed to be a celebration of love above anything else.